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Question by John M: is it normal to feel lonely when I hear other people having sex?

When I hear about people my age, my friends having sex in college and when I actually hear them doing it I get jealous and I begin to feel sad and ugly. I feel sad, alone and ugly and I get jealous because I am 19 and a virgin and cannot see imagine myself doing it which is a shame.
I can talk to girls Ok and I am confident for my age but I feel like I am never going to lose my V because girls are rarely ever interested in me.
Has anyone else ever felt this way?




Best answer:

Answer by Memie R
Look John to be perfectly honest, you're more the norm then the odd one out. It doesn't mean you're strange for feeling lonely or the outcast. What it means is that you have genuine feelings and have the capacity to eventually experience something pleasurable with someone. Don't rush it, even though you might want to, when you find someone who really likes you for you you'll be glad you were the one that took their time. Besides, really no body really likes the guy who's slept with tonnes of people anyhow - I know a lot of women who find that nasty, and it's usually the hallow insecure girls that go for those men. Who would want that kind of girl anyways? Don't worry about it, take my word for it.

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